Teenage Love

Do you believe in love in high school? Could it possibly exist?

No way, kids don't know what true love is... But, how many people do you know that dated in high school that are currently married and happy? I personally know about 4 couples very very well that are now happy after being high school sweethearts. Did they just like each other as teens and grow to love each other? When did the "like" change to "love?" In college? Age 21? 22?23? Or could they possibly have loved each other all along?

Nowadays, many teenagers in high school already have boyfriends or girlfriends. It is not really an uncommon thing anymore in teenagers point of view lately. Teenagers in junior high school who already have boyfriends or girlfriends are just following their natural interest which usually goes to dating. People see this nowadays as there are many young teenagers who still in junior high school to what they called ‘hang out’ or dating in many places. Some people don’t mind about any young teenagers dating because it has some bright side, however there are some people who disagree with it because it also have negative effects. Parents should not let their teen-aged children in junior high schools to have boyfriends or girlfriends because of teenagers’ inability to maintain a relationship, no self control, unreadiness of any consequences.

First, teenagers in  high school are unable to maintain a relationship. At the young stage of teen age which we know as the teenagers in junior high school, teenagers mostly are having the changing stage from children to teenagers. This changing period affect them both physical and non-physical attribute. The changing of physical attributes have no effect at all in the relationship of teenagers relationship toward opposite sex or gender. While the changing of non-physical attribute affect them really much. According to recent study, there are many non-physical changes that occur during adolescence, most notably the large increase in the number of connections between neurons in the brain. This is what causes the change of behavior in adolescents. The notable changes are the teenagers’ instability of feeling, thought and will. They have a couple not because of true love, but only because following their thoughts to discover new experience. It’s often happen because teenagers don’t understand the necessity of having girlfriend or boyfriend. They dont even know what is love.

When you are over i8,you love a girl and thats call love, when you are below 18, you love a girl,thats call puppy love.Some of my friends, they dont even know why they want to have a girlfriend or boyfriend. They just think that i am 16 year old now, mature enough, can do whatever things they like. For boys, they will think that this girl very pretty,sexy and their mind will straight away pop up something related with SEX. So they squeeze their mind to get attraction from the girl. For girl, when they saw handsome boy, they will not bling their eye,and just stare at the boy.Just fall in love with the boy.

I realy dont agree teenagers to have girlfriend. Why? Because when you have girlfriend,you will not focus on your study,and your monthly expenses will go bigger and bigger. All these love will not last long. When they see another girl or boy which  even handsome than their currently girlfriend or boyfriend, they will change it immediately. If they really want to have a couple, please after your secondary schoool.

About Me

My topik for this week blog is About Me. My name is Peir Ler. i am 16 year-old this year. I study at SMKDJ. I am Form 4 this year. I stay with my aunt because my family had went to oversea last year. They will come back to Malaysia during every Chinese New Year and some important Chinese Festival. I am not that lazy,but also not that hardworking. I will do somethings that i really like to do or i feel like doing.it.

What You Like ?

I LOve cars. Why? I feel like cars can give me energy at doing everything. I eventhough can creazy ubtil spend the whole day just for watching car review. I also like to discover cars like their sepcification,features,safety.......My house has one rack for me to keep my cars. Just be honnest,I like to facing car book more than my text book or story book. When the car company had launch their own car,i will go seek on it.. Like the all new Honda City and Nissan Slyphy. I can spend the whole day facing at them. I really love Cars....!

What sport you like.?

When i was young, i like to play basketball and badminton. But since this year Februry, I love to cycle. Is so fun. If you trying to turn over a new leaf, you may try mountain biking. Why? Because it is too Awesome. i dont know why i love it so much, when my brother bought a mountain bicycle, and i cycle it around my housing area,it make me feels good and awesome. All my stressness and sadnes willl go away and happy thing will come into my soul. On March, I took mu piggy bank money to brought a mountain bike. After that day, My life had change. From a lazy and a boy who dont like to exercise had change to a Rider. I need to ride bicycle at least 50 Kilometres a day. But because my aunt house got no place for me to keep my bicycle, so i had to keep it at my aunt son house. Now, i cycle every weekend.My best record is 76kilometres and the time i need is 2 and a half hours. I went to Off-Road at least once a month. 

Do You MIss your Family?

Well, Of course i miss them. I dont feel isolation here, because my aunt trat me like her own son. She bring me everywhere she went. My aunt son also treat me like their own brother. Sometimes, own family of course is better then other family. But nevermind, i am going to stay here until next year, after i graduate. Soon,i will visit them.

What is your ambition?

When i was young untill now, i have several ambition. When iwas 7 year-old,I want to be a Police. Because that year have a lot of theif. I want to catch them and send them in jail. When i was 9 year-old, i want to be a cheif. Because i got the talented at cooking. Until i 14year-old,i want to be a doctor.BEcause in that year, i saw a movie is related about doctor. This movie make me feel to be a doctor when i go older.Unfortunately, it wil not be happen. When i was 15, i want to be a Pilot. But,my brother is a Pilot, No point a family need 2 Pilots. So, in this year, is time for me to make a right ambition that suitable me. I cant be pilot, but i can be Plane Engineer. So now,my ambition is to be a plane engineer.

What is your  Goal for this year?

I am not god at studying. I cant face books more than 5 hours a day. It will toucher me and make i hate books. But, Ilove cycling . So my goal for this year is cycle more than 100 kilometres in 3 and a half hour. Is a little bit hard for me, but i believe  i can make it.